Suicide!

This will just be a brief prayer request. In recent posts I have mentioned my youngest son who is not yet saved. Yesterday, his friend's family had to make the decision to disconnect the machines that had been keeping their daughter 'alive' since Sunday. They found her that morning unconscious and not breathing on her bedroom floor. They rushed her to the hospital but despite all the medical efforts, she was declared brain dead yesterday morning. The cause? An overdose of oxycodone, crushed and snorted. No one knows if she intended to die or simply get high, but the end result is that a lot of people are searching for answers where there are none to be found. Pray that somehow, my son will see God's sovereign hand even in this tragedy, because right now he can't. He sees only the big question, "If God loves us so much, why did He let my friend be so disillusioned with reality that she felt she had to get high, or worse, want to die?" As a mother, I just don't know what to say to this or what answers to give him that won't sound trite or overly simplistic. I have enough faith in His purposes to know that He has one, even if I can't see it right now. My son doesn't. Pray that the right words will spill from my mouth somehow and that God will be glorified even at this horrific moment in time.
3 Comments:
At 1:24 PM,
Priscilla49 said…
Thank you! It is terribly tragic and my son is a mess! Prayers are my best hope and I appreciate every one!
At 4:56 PM,
The Real Music Observer said…
Pr49,
You and your son are in my prayers. It's funny, because the person I witnessed to at work is also a non-believer for those very same reasons you mentioned. Bad things do not call to mind the love of God. Casting Crowns has a song out called "Praise You in The Storm" which encompasses the theme of loving God despite these things. But for a non-believer, it's more ammo for their side. God does allow bad things to happen for a reason...maybe to prevent others from making the same mistake. It's hard to know. I pray that God will reveal Himself to your son and give comfort to this grieving family.
At 12:24 PM,
Priscilla49 said…
Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers! Today is the calling hours and tomorrow is the funeral. I will stay at my son's side if he will allow it and if not, I'll just be here to hold him if he curls up on the bed and cries again. I think that as parents, that's what we need to do. I think we need to show him that the love of his parents will always be there for him, and maybe, just maybe, he can make the leap to the love of our Heavenly Father.
Thanks for your thoughts and comments. Each one is a gem of wisdom and is helpful in knowing what to do.
God bless you all!
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